The decision to move to a retirement community is a monumental one in itself, but once that decision is made, the time comes for packing, moving and – typically – downsizing. Over the course of many years, people collect things that they need to fill their homes – furniture, artwork, linens, knick-knacks, etc. We spoke with Carol Cole of Smooth Transitions in Roanoke, who will be our featured speaker at our April Luncheon (click here to see our upcoming events), which is already full!
What do you find is the hardest part of downsizing?
Carol: Most of my clients have lived in their homes a long time and are used to having their treasures around them. The hardest part is letting go of so many things that will no longer have a place in their new smaller home. It is a part of the transition process that requires the client to “think backwards” by visualizing the new home and the wonderful freedoms the new life and space will bring. It is easier to let go of old things once that vision is adopted.
When do you think the best time to start the process is?
Carol: Life is all about changes and staying in balance. We need to be on top of changes – deliberately and all the time. When a person becomes aware that their home is no longer the right size for them, or lost the advantages it once had, it’s time to think about what’s next. Many people begin to long for a simpler life with less complications, expenses, and chores. This is the best time to envision the next chapter and begin planning the way to get there. It is always harder to make the transition when circumstances force it or the family thinks they need to take charge. In a nutshell, as soon as possible. Don’t wait! The choices are better when there is less urgency.
What are your top 3 tips for making a move?
Carol: 1 – Make a commitment; 2 – Make a plan; 3 – Get all the help you can.
Downsizing is a very personal process so if you’d like more information or how to address your specific needs, contact Carol by visiting her website {click here}.
